Haveyou ever worry about some rumors about you? Do you feel sad about wheneveryou remember the people who hurt you badly? Have you get tired ofhearing your parents said your classmates are better than you in study, or thekids in the neighborhood find a good job while you are not. You think you arein a pathetic predicament because you care too much about others eyes,especially from the one you love.
你有没有担忧过有关于你的谣言呢？你有没有每当想起那些伤害过你的人就觉得悲伤呢？你有没有厌烦你父母对你说你的同学学习比你好，或者邻居家的孩子找的工作比你好呢？你之所以觉得你生活在个可悲的困境里是因为你太过于在乎别人的眼光，特别是你爱的人的眼光。
Lifeis too short to live happy, you are who you are. You don’t have to pay too muchattention to the opinion from others about you, whether it is good or bad. Ifit is praise, you will feel happy and your self-confidence will be increased. Butif it is detraction, you might feel horrible, and you may self-deprecation.
人生苦短，行乐需及时，你就是你，你无须太过注意别人对你的看法，无论那是好的还是坏的。如果那是赞扬，你会感觉到快乐，你的自信心也会增加。但如果那是诽谤，你会感觉很糟糕，你可能还会自我贬低。
Whyshould we care about that? Why can’t we live just the way we are? Because thereare too many social rules that restrain us. We have to study hard in order tobe able to get a good job; we have to smile all the time in order to makepeople feel you are kind to everyone, even the one who is mean to you. You haveto earn piles of cash so that give your parents “face”.
为什么我们要关心那些？为什么我们不能按我们的想法活着？因为有太多的社会规则约束着我们。我们要努力学习为了能够找到一份好工作；我们要时时刻刻保持微笑为了让人们觉得你对每个人都很友善，即使是对你刻薄的人。你得赚一大堆钞票来给你的父母脸上添光。
Ina word, it is all the matter of face, such as school thinks long good-lookingface, and the office has a rich have found that, in the face of love is face. Ithink it is time for us to lay down our face, live the way we are, don’t livein other’s eyes. Just be yourself, you will feel happier than before.
总之，所有的问题都是面子问题，例如在学校里觉得长得好看是有面子，而办公室里觉得找个有钱的就有面子一样，其实爱的都是面子。我认为是时候该放下我们的面子，活出自我，不要活在别人的眼光里。做你自己，你会觉得比以前快乐。
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